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Paul Ray Schladenhauffen

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Paul Ray Schladenhauffen obituary, 1954-2026, Seabrook Island, SC

BORN

1954

DIED

2026

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Paul Schladenhauffen Obituary

Paul Ray Schladenhauffen
Born: January 26, 1954 in Watseka, IL
Died: March 4, 2026 in Seabrook Island, SC
Paul Ray Schladenhauffen, 72, passed away peacefully on March 4, 2026. Born January 26, 1954, in Watseka, Illinois, he was the son of Carl and Rose Schladenhauffen.
Paul spent much of his life in Joliet, Illinois, where he built a long and successful career as a software engineer with Caterpillar. In 1999, he married the love of his life, Mary Jo (Wysocki) Schladenhauffen, beginning a marriage filled with laughter, adventure, and a shared love of travel.
After retiring, Paul and Mary Jo moved to South Carolina, living in Mount Pleasant, Murrells Inlet, and most recently Seabrook Island. Together they traveled extensively, river cruising through Europe, sledging in the Swiss Alps, eating their way through Italy, seeing the Pope in Rome, riding a seaplane in Alaska, and ziplining in Costa Rica.
A proud son of German and Alsace heritage, Paul had a passion for travel, great food, music, and life itself, and he especially loved spending time with his family and friends. A devoted Catholic and member of Holy Spirit Catholic Church on Johns Island, he was also a self-proclaimed unlucky golfer, a lover of cigars and good bourbon, and a longtime Jimmy Buffett Parrothead.
Paul was a devoted husband, father, and grandfather. He is survived by his beloved wife, Mary Jo; his children, Amy (Ray) Brady, Jason (Lexi) Schladenhauffen, and Julia Schladenhauffen; and his cherished grandchildren, Sawyer and Scout Schladenhauffen. He is also survived by his sister, Patty McManis; his brothers, Steve (Jennifer) Schladenhauffen and Jeff Schladenhauffen; as well as several nieces and nephews, and his brothers- and sisters-in-law.
Paul was preceded in death by his parents, Carl and Roseanne Schladenhauffen; his brother, Mike Schladenhauffen; his sister, Carlene Schladenhauffen; his in-laws, Joseph and Dorothy Wysocki; and brother-in-law, Bob Wysocki.
His family takes comfort in imagining him reunited with those who went before him, perhaps with a cigar in one hand, a bourbon in the other.
Funeral services will be held on Friday, March 27th at Holy Spirit Catholic Church, 3871 Betsy Kerrison Pkwy, Johns Island, SC 29455. Visitation will begin at 10:00 a.m., followed by the funeral Mass at 11:00 a.m. A celebration of life will take place afterward at The Seabrook Island Club, 3772 Seabrook Island Rd, Seabrook Island, SC.
In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations in Paul's name be made to the MUSC Foundation - Brain Health Division: https://giving.musc.edu/

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Published by Herald-News on Mar. 24, 2026.

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Kurt Decman

March 27, 2026

Friendship requires a certain amount of respect for each other. Paul (May God rest your soul) and I worked well together on software development for CAT, his knowledge of computers was a must in software development. Paul being a good friend also help me through some personal problems outside of work. He will always be remembered as a good friend!

Laurie James

March 25, 2026

Mary Jo,
Truly sorry to hear about the passing of Paul. You and your family have my deepest sympathy. May he rest in peace
Laurie james

Paula

March 24, 2026

Mary Jo, I am so, so, sorry to see this. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.

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Holy Spirit Catholic Church

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Holy Spirit Catholic Church

3871 Betsy Kerrison Pkwy, Johns Island, SC

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