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1953
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2023
Timothy Blacker Obituary
Secret Lake Avon - Born into a loving family July 31, 1953, Timothy Todd "Tim" Blacker came up under harsh conditions. The second of eight children, he was raised in Secret Lake, by F. David and Joyce (O'Neil) Blacker.
He was independent, smart, strong, creative and loyal. He had style like a breeze off cool ocean water and it came through in everything he did - saunter in wearing a yellow linen shirt, jeans, leather belt, and flat-hat, leave without saying goodbye. Like the rest of us, only human, Tim had faults. He knew them better than anyone. He did the best he could. His family was very important to him; one step into his home told you that. Pictures of his siblings and cousins on the mirror. His father at the Alamo, framed on the wall. Photos on the fridge. On the coffee table. Rich with memories. Generously shared. Love comforted him like a blanket. He never stopped smiling and found enjoyment in life till the end. Whether he was visiting with friends and family, having a bowl of ice cream, watching a race, or trying to start his boat to go fishing, he didn't let his hardships take away his joy or his sense of humor.
His final days were spent surrounded by family; he passed peacefully in the early morning hours of Dec. 30, 2023. Tim was predeceased by his mother and father; brothers, Christopher, Roderick and Sean Blacker; brothers-in-law, Tony Tomaszewski and John Jenkins; sister-in-law Wendy Blacker. He is survived by his children, Kelly (Dan) Pierce, Patrick (Sophia) Blacker and Evan (Hayly) Blacker; grandchildren, Orrin, Winona, Marlow and Daphne; brothers, Dave (Marybeth) and Jeff (Candice); sisters, Holly and Penny; as well as many nieces and nephews. His former wife, Bev, always held a special place in his heart.The family will be forever grateful to his loyal and patient friend, Jean; as well as the support of Bill W. and all of his friends.
Please join the family in celebrating Tim's life from 4 p.m. until the end Saturday, Jan. 13, at Palmers Provisions, 17 Pearl Street, Noank. Please bring pictures and your favorite memories of Tim. In lieu of flowers, consider a donation to Camp Wightman, 207 Coal Pit Hill Road, Griswold, CT 06351.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Memories and Condolences
for Timothy Blacker
Susan Morin
April 4, 2024
MY GOOD FRIEND
Sylvia Johnson
January 15, 2024
I just got the message about Tim passing away. My condolences to all of the Blacker family. I was a babysitter for Tim back in 1953. I had put aside an envelope with some pictures of him, including one at 15 days old the day he was Christened. I shall always remember the Blacker family they were a great part of my life when living in Secret Lake. May he rest in peace. Sylvia Kay Johnson.
Eileen Moran
January 13, 2024
RIP brother Tim. Sail on.
Keith Riendeau
January 13, 2024
I had some memorable times with Tim. He was a gentle giant.Our heart felt condolences to the Family ,On behalf of all the Riendeau's.GodSpeed my friend.
GENE AND ALICE STICKNEY
January 9, 2024
GENE and ALICE STICKNEY, TIM WILL BE GREATLY MISSED. ALICE AND I WERE LONG TIME FRIEND OVER 40 YEARS. WE HAVE MANY FOND MEMORIES OF ALLTHE THINGS WE DID TOGETHER.
William Severni
January 9, 2024
Growing up in Avon, I remember Tim and his family fondly
May God welcome him in a warm loving embrace and tell him well done my son.
Carl DalBon
January 9, 2024
Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.
Paul and Elaine Ciarcia
January 8, 2024
Tim was always there when I needed him to fix something or needed something on the waterfront at Camp Wightman. He always had the wood splitter out for us and everything else we needed for work day. And he always greeted us with that great smile! So sorry we can't be at the Celebration of Life.
Elaine and Paul Ciarcia
Maggie and Matt Robinson
January 8, 2024
We are thinking of Tim and hope your family finds peace remembering all of the good times.
Craig Lister
January 8, 2024
Tim was a classmate and a teammate on the Avon football team. A great guy and part of the "tough left side" of our defense. Rest in peace, Tim
Marie Tyler Wiley
January 8, 2024
To Dave & Family,
To all the blockers so sorry to read of Tim´s passing. Losing anyone that your love is difficult.
May the love of your family and friends hold you up during the sad time.
Marie & Kip Wiley
Kathy Jesmonth (Spencer)
January 8, 2024
Working with Tim at Camp Wightman was always a pleasure--he always greeted me with a smile. It was a pleasure to have known him. I will be unable to attend the service, but my thoughts and prayers will be there.
Jean
January 7, 2024
I spent So many days on the water with Tim. He loved to boat, fish or just float laying in the sunshine. Rip, Timma
James Burgess
January 7, 2024
Damn-it man.Tim and the Blacker clan spent much time at our house. He and Dave were good
friends and fishing buddies. Prayers go out to the rest of the Swampers who share our memories.AHO
Ellen
January 7, 2024
He was such a sweet guy. I spent lots of time with him at Avon High School. He will really be missed.
Ellen Giantonio Keralla
Penny
January 7, 2024
Penny
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Penny
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Penny
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Penny
January 7, 2024
You are loved Tim and you will be missed! Say hi to the folks!
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