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Gretchen Pfaehler Obituary
March 11, 1966 - January 13, 2025
With heavy hearts, we announce the passing of Gretchen K. Pfaehler, FAIA, on January 13, 2025. A devoted sister, daughter, friend, and esteemed colleague, Gretchen's vibrant spirit and remarkable contributions leave an enduring legacy and an irreplaceable void in the lives of all who knew her.
Born in Madison, Wisconsin, Gretchen was preceded in death by her mother, Brenda Pfaehler, and her father, G. Thomas Pfaehler (Judy). She is survived by her loving brother, Seth Pfaehler (Nancy) of Madison, WI, along with a community of extended family and friends who cherished her dearly.
Gretchen's professional journey was marked by her deep passion for historic preservation. She dedicated her life to the thoughtful restoration of historic structures across the nation, including the restoration and preservation the iconic rotunda of the Wisconsin State Capitol. Her work was recognized at the highest level in 2024 when she was inducted as a Fellow of the American Institute of Architects - an honor she accepted with grace and an unwavering commitment to mentoring the next generation.
Beyond her professional achievements, Gretchen was a cherished presence whose warmth and compassion fostered deep connections among family and friends. Her kindness, generosity, and genuine spirit left an indelible mark on all who had the privilege of knowing her.
Her legacy lives on in the landmarks she preserved, the lives she touched, and the countless memories that continue to bring comfort to those who loved her.
A Celebration of Life will be announced through Gretchen's memorial website at https://www.forevermissed.com/gretchen-pfaehler. We invite you to share tributes, post memories, and reflect on the beautiful ways Gretchen enriched your life.
In lieu of flowers, donations in Gretchen's honor may be made to The Planet Word Museum or National Public Radio - organizations that resonate with her lifelong passions for education, storytelling, and the transformative power of language.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
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