Lois Howard Obituary

I am so sad that it is only now I am learning of Lois' death. She was an amazing friend of our mother, Bernice Gosling, and our family adored her. Her creativity, her quirky and original sense of humor always endeared her to us. May she rest in musical and poetic peace. Maureen Gosling

I always smile when Lois comes to mind. She, along with my mom (Patty Kerr) and their small group of friends, enjoyed many good times together in La Jolla, especially at a local brunch place after church on Sundays. Mom was in a place in her life where she really needed a good friend, and Lois filled that need perfectly. Lois's upbeat attitude and vibrant personality lifted my mom and everyone else around her.
Thank you, Lois.

Lois was a wonderful, positive influence on my mother, Patty Kerr. She encouraged her to get involved with Penn Women and to continue writing poetry. They had so much fun in the church choir and especially loved going out to brunch afterwards and enjoying the "adult beverages" that were part of the Sunday tradition. They also laughed a lot during game nights and went on some wonderful cruises together - something my mother had never done before meeting Lois. She, Frank, Linda and my mother were quite a quartet. They sure knew how to party! And they also were able to share their true feelings with one another. I think the "Lois "Chapter" of my mother´s life was one of her happiest. I am so grateful that Lous reached out to her and included her in the group.

So saddened to hear of Lois´ passing. Forever "Mrs. Howard" to me she was more than just a piano teacher. She was mentor, friend and surrogate mother after mine passed. Thank you to her family for sharing her with me. May your memories provide you comfort. She´s playing music for the angels, I´m sure.

Lois was a dear friend of my Mother and they often performed together at the Toledo art museum and churches in the area. She was a fine musician and a beautiful soul. Prayers for comfort and peace along with my sincere condolences to the family.

Rest In Peace, dear Lois.

Lois fought her battle with cancer with courage and finally acceptance. She never stopped writing her inspiring poetry and playing beautiful music in her head. I first met Lois when she was a Pen Woman in the La Jolla branch and then enjoyed her when she transferred to the Palm Springs branch. She loved the Pen Women and she will be missed. May she rest in peace. I know there are organs in heaven and she is playing it.

I don't have to tell you what a wonderful person your mother was and, Frank, she was so fortunate to have you in her life. You have my deepest sympathy. Lois and I both shared a love of poetry; I looked forward to the poems she sent almost daily, even when she was suffering. She has left behind a treasure in her music and writing. It is something you will always have along with years of memories. The world has lost a special woman and I have lost a friend. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Frank- you took such good care of her- she was a true treasure and friend and will be miss. Sympathy and prayers to you and all the family.