Benjamin Adderley Obituary

I am so sorry to hear from Ron today that Ben is gone. I only met him once several years ago when he was painting at a place where I occasionally work. Yet, that one meeting and conversations with him over a few days made clear to me that he was a kind and caring wonderful man.

Ben Adderley, what a great human being. I have a lot of fun memories with Ben in my 20´s. He will be missed by so many people.

I will miss your smile, taking care of you and your sarcasm. You were a joy to see every day. You I will never forget!

Thank you everyone for the thoughtful messages and words about Ben. All of us appreciate your warm wishes and prayers. Love to you all!

-The Adderley family

I live in Arizona now but seeing this broke my heart. Many years ago I worked at Sealinks in Birch Bay and Ben would come in after work for a couple of beers and also with his beautiful wife Lori.
Ben had this sense of humor I will never forgot... it always felt like I was being harassed by my older brother in a loving way lol. He would talk about his kids and what they were up to... he was an amazing human and one of my favorites. Sending you love Lori and family
Love Mandi Phoenix AZ

Dear Adderley family. I am so very sad for your loss. Ben's mom, Jani, was a good friend of mine and my boys attended school with Ben. Please know that I am loving you and holding you close in my heart at this time.

We are so sorry to hear of your loss! He was such a great, kind person..,loved by many! Stephanie and Paul Sadler

I am thinking of you, Lori and your family.May you feel Gods presence at this time.
prayers, Carole Inge

Dear Ron, Lori and Family: Erwin and I are so deeply sorry to hear of Ben´s passing. He was without a doubt one of the most positive and friendliest people we´ve met since moving to WA. He always provided top notch service and we shared many a laugh on his visits to our home to complete painting touch ups for us. We will miss his warm smile. Sending all of you our deepest sympathy and a long and heartfelt hug.

I had Ben in music at Columbia elementary school. He was such a positive young boy. His upbeat personality made him unforgettable.
God bless his family and loved ones.
Ann Wiebusch Gray

Hi ron. You and ben did several painting projects for my late husband mike mccollum. He always enjoyed both of you and appreciated the quality of your work. So sorry, kelly

Hi Ron. I´m so sorry for your loss. I remember how much he meant to you. I hope you´re well.
Lynn Carpenter.

Dear Ron, Nick and Adderley family, My heart is heavy with the passing of Ben. He had such a positive attitude even when he was dealing with his illness and the side affects... I will miss his smile and the brightness he always brought with him to the projects we worked on together. I am so sorry, and hope your many memories with him help you thru this time. Ron, big hugs from me, your friend, Kristin Engerman

Ben was a great guy good son, father and worker, Ben and his dad painted some houses for me and their work was impeccable . My sincere condolences go out to his dad Ron and all the family! may God bless your soul and my you rest in eternal peace Ben!

My heart goes you to all of you. Working with Ben and Ron for oh so many years was always a pleasure. Like father, like son. Both always committed to service, quality and integrity. No words can fill the emptiness in your hearts, but the memories of all the good Ben brought to the world can help ease the pain.
God bless you all.
Thank you Ben for just being you!